Wednesday, 31 October 2012

Heather! re: bellies

OH I feel you on the belly.  I HATE mine.  I have had two children and am also in my 40's, so I get it!  (I know your in your 20's, but THREE children will be sure to leave some marks:) NO way in hell does that exclude you from camming.  I have stretch marks, although not that noticeable, but I do have a spare tire or two.  First off, I try to minimise showing my belly as much as I can.  With the "rolls" I make sure I am always facing the camera (NEVER SIDEWAYS ACK!).  Also, a tried and true trick that you will see a lot of models use, (in fact, just did this myself last night).  If you wear a tank top, then get to your goal and they want naked, or tits etc, I just take the straps off, expose the boobs and keep the t-shirt around the middle. Makes it much easier.  Go have a look at some camming sites and watch for a bit.  DON'T watch the absolute top models, because they are "perfect".  Watch some middle of the road ones, and you will see, there is a market for ALL OF US.   We do not have to be perfect. 

The fact that we are "average" and not perfect makes us more REAL I think.  So the men feel more like "wow, this could be my neighbour, how hot is this?".  SURE, the top models are perfect in every way and have the porn star act DOWN pat, but that doesn't mean we cant make some money either.  So please, do not let the belly discourage you. You can work around it, and you will also be surprised at how men really don't care!  If your entertaining, they will come.  Of course, pussy and tits is all they really care to see anyway... lol. My thing is, be yourself.  Enjoy it, go with it and as long as you're having fun with it, that's all that matters really.  Again, if you want it as a HUGE source of income, you may disappointed.  If you go into it without high expectations I think you will be pleasantly surprised.

Yesterday was my first night back.  I was scared shitless.  I have not been able to squirt and that was my HUGE "draw" I figured.  So, I had a little bit much to drink before even getting on.  Then of course, I got all horned up before I even reached my goal and just had to have orgasm after orgasm after orgasm.  I made 700 tokens, so about $35 and it was approx. an hour and a half I believe.  I had fun.  Little sore today from all that pounding but dam I needed that.  I hope my squirt comes back!  Although, I must say, nobody seemed to mind that I couldn't.  My poor neighbours that live below me must really wonder what the heck I am doing up there by myself moaning, screaming and saying FUCK ME..  Thank God I don't see them much, I think I would be many shades of red.

I am going back on tonight for a couple hours since I have until midnight to make some $$ and get paid tomorrow.  I have dug out my old Lelo Vibrator to use.  Its perfect.  3 inches max of insert able length,  and maybe an inch around?  I cannot believe how FREAKING tight I am since surgery.  Very exciting.  Just praying my squirt comes back. 

Heather, let me know what you decided and ANY questions I am happy to try and help.  Not that I am an expert by any means. lol.

4 comments:

  1. Thank you! That really puts me at ease. The tank top thing is smart, btw. ;) I was looking to get into camming more as a means of supplementary income to the child support/alimony from the divorce, so I'm not looking for the big bucks...just enough to help pay the bills you know? You are such an inspiration and I love your blog. I'll be moving into my new place in the next couple of months, so I'll let you know if/when I start working. In the mean time, I'll be doing tons of research, checking out other models and of course, keeping up with your blog. :o) Thanks for all the help and valuable information. *hugs* --Heather--

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    1. YOU are sooooo welcome! when I started camming I couldnt find ANYTHING to help me. I wanted to know what to expect, but couldnt find a thing. I did join another models forum, but felt out of place and like it was still somewhat "cliquey" .

      Any other blogs I found were mainly geared towards the men or customers, so I thought I should start a "diary" of sorts. I am glad its helpful to somebody:) Let me know when your set up and I will come tip!

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